You know, I have had the pleasure of meeting a lot of people throughout my life and some of those relationships have been very beneficial and others not so much. I have reached a point in my life where I have like the rest of the world, other things going on. It always seems that when you try to be positive and motivate and inspire others all they EVER bring to the table is negativity; you know those “friends” that I am talking about. When you are thrilled about something and have great news they have to down play it by telling you how horrible their day was. Yea, that “friend” the one that can’t ever seem to stop being selfish long enough to realize that everything is NOT I repeat NOT about you. To be honest no one really cares to tell you the truth. Well I personally am over the typical, melodramatic, annoying friendships that make you avoid their phone calls and wish that they would just leave you alone. There are so many books on how to have good relationships with the opposite sex, someone should write a handbook on how to be a good friend and if it were me it would go a little something like this:
• No one wants to always hear that you had a bad day… no one cares
• No one wants to listen to how horrible your life is…. Others have it worse
• Stop being selfish and using the entire time to talk about your issues… no one cares
• Stop complaining especially if you continue to put yourself in the SAME situation every single time
• Last but not least stop talking long enough to HEAR what the other person is saying
Well my rant is over its beautiful outside… and I’m actually having a GREAT DAY! Take a page from my book and get over it
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